Hugo's World

After going through my healing process and working towards my divorce I have been realizing how our legal, health and educational systems here in Canada and probably in lots of places in the western world do not fit the needs of the cases outside of the average.

First, post Covid lockdown children has demonstrated much more anxiety to get into a regular long hours of activity and my 11 year old didn’t fit the public system and after a long challenging time now he is in a special needs private school with support from my ex’s family.

Second, diagnosis for ADHD and Autism were private and even good work benefits like the ones I have don’t cover at all.

Third, divorce laws only look for the ex partner who makes more and who makes less and do not take in consideration the mental toll and burnt out that someone like me had for years which at end I got separated scammed which makes totally sense now to me. It could be gambling, drugs for others like me and could finish out in the streets.

I also realizing that I am resilient individual who is able to fight in different fronts: my very demanding job, my separation dealings, my self care with daily meditation, pickleball, looking forward to ice skating again and ice hockey, career objectives and R&D on the side.

Hopefully my words above can help someone who is dealing with separation and the stupidity of our broken systems but if I can be resilient and move forward and battle in many fronts anyone can.