2025 was a year of many events … first full year dealing with a separation, lost $ due to a scam but I found myself, refocusing in my job, taking care of my students, my technical assignments, demonstrating my leadership, meditating, taking time for me to be close to my son and my wonderful rescued…

I have not written any new story in more than a month but I decided to do this time after CTV news showed part of my interview with them more than 2 months ago. First at all, I am a person who fights every single day with a very busy and demanding job, supporting as…

After going through my healing process and working towards my divorce I have been realizing how our legal, health and educational systems here in Canada and probably in lots of places in the western world do not fit the needs of the cases outside of the average. First, post Covid lockdown children has demonstrated much…

It is easy to ignore our surroundings when we are doing fine in life after a pretty remarkable way back on track in my career, objectives and personal life. …But this is not how I am. As part of my healing I am able to feel compassion for the struggles of others. The homeless man…

Few days ago a very good friend shared with me an interview to a psychologist regarding the future of the workforce in key sectors and the approach of new generations addressing gaps. It was interesting to hear from different perspective how previous generations like mine in the 40s and older don’t fully understand the view…

There are many things that I have been learning as part of my own healing process post separation such as that every day is different and I will have ups and downs and I need to adjust to the moment the best way I can to move forward emotionally from it. Today, I had 2…

More than 17 years ago I saw a video and listened carefully Johnny Cash’s version of Nine Inch Nails song Hurt and it impacted me deeply enough that I made my interpretation of this in a Toastmasters Public Speaking Club at that time. I remember the lyrics were raw “What have I becomeMy sweetest friend?Everyone…

Growing up in a South American country with some pros and cons of a latin society when the idea of having a million of friends was never my idea; I found refuge drinking a bit with some people and listening rock music specially 90’s where cool bands with some depressing content were a perfect fit…

Education and health are key components of everyone’s lives. Specifically Ontario, Canada both extremely important are designed only for the average person. When someone has a partner with more than one health concern and a child with anxiety and pending diagnosis of ADHD and autism don’t meet the criteria at all despite having a very…

My ex and I got a 9 month old rescued mixed dog from the Caribbean 4 years ago. The try out for this dog was 3 weeks max to decide if we keep him or not. During the 3 weeks, this creature was extremely anxious, he didn’t wanna go outside, accidents as expected. I needed…